Staying in Love is a Skill


In decades gone by couples often underwent ‘premarital counseling’ with their minister or priest or religious leader  The function of this meeting was primarily to ensure the long-term commitment of the couple to the faith. Today therapists that provide premarital counseling sessions are more interested in facilitating effective communication between the couple, empowering them to recognize differences as gifts, and providing skills to work through the challenges that arise.

Over the years in private practice, I have provided counseling for couples entering into long-term commitments that I call ‘Premarital Communication Sessions.’ During these sessions, we explore the intuitive differences in how the individuals in the relationship both communicate, and the ways in which they experience the connection in the relationship, including how they are wired to experience the gifts of their partner. A good starting tool you can do yourself can be found by googling ‘The Languages of Love.’

Location: Canada

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